I’ve spent most of my life feeling invisible, or at least transparent (which you might find an amazing feat, seeing that I’m actually as tall or taller than many men I know…especially in my awesome platform wedges). I’m not sure how this feeling began, but I remember going about life trying to absorb every detail [...]

Last time, I talked about how I spend time with certain people (*cough cough* men *cough cough*) because they make me feel special, and how I want to make myself feel special and not need anybody else to validate me that way. I’m figuring out how to do that. Here’s the second installment on my [...]

Hello there. It’s me again. I know you all thought I dropped off the face of the earth. Well, I hate to disappoint, but…I didn’t. Here I am! Anyway, I’ve been pondering relationships lately. And recently, as I was standing in my shower reflecting on the mysteries of life and love and the universe, I [...]

Lately, I have pushed abundance aside…much to my dismay…and an astute onlooker to my life said to me, “You have all that you need.” My first thought was, “No, I don’t. I don’t have __________, or _______, or __________, or _______.” (I stopped writing gratitude in my journal in January, so when I do write, [...]

I think often of the great things we accomplish when we work together. Recently, I had to write a myth in one of my classes. I struggled and labored with it until I called my family for help. I spoke with several members, each one adding insights through brainstorming with me. Some gave suggestions. Others [...]

Happy February!  Traditionally seen as a month of hearts, love, pinks, reds, whites, etc…I needed a new month today.  January was a tiny bit stressful for me! I’ve been pondering my innate need for connection lately.  I have priorities to connect with my husband, our children, my friends, God, other family members, and even myself [...]